Sunday 16 June 2013

The Art of Spanking

Hello Little Kinkster

Here at Kandi Towers we get asked all the time,

 "Kandi, what is the secret of a great spanking ?"

So we got a few of our Dom and sub friends together and over the course of a wine-fuelled evening we managed to 'thrash' out a list of their top tips for a jolly good spanking.

1- Anticipation


It's a good idea to set a specific punishment time. The anticipation will add to your sub's sexual arousal. You can heighten their arousal by telling them what's going to happen, ordering them to touch themselves or asking them to explain why they deserve a spanking. Phone calls and text messages are a great way to build up to the event. Of course, you will want to ensure that they obey your instructions, and that they know their spanking will be harder if they disobey.

2- Presentation


This can quite simply be instructing your sub to take a bath or shower, dress in a sexy manner ie. schoolgirl or nurses outfit, sexy underwearfetishwear or how about a spank skirt. This all creates a sense of building up to the moment, notching up the anticipation another level and ensuring that your sub stays in the right frame of mind.

3- Ritual


This could be ordering them to assume a position ie. kneeling or bending over and touching their toes. All the time still talking to them, telling them what you are about to do and why. Maybe telling them it's "for their own good," or "how bad and naughty" they have been.

4- Inspection


When your sub presents themself to you make sure you take your time to walk around them and inspect them closely. Tell them what you like and instruct them to put on a display for you, touch them sexually, talk dirty to them the whole time and whisper in their ear.

5- Preparation


Once your sub is in the position you want ie. over your knee, over a piece of furniture or restrained, run your hand over their bottom squeezing its firmness and fullness. You can check how ready they are by running your hand between their thighs to see how wet/hard they are. Explain how their bottom is going to look, glowing red with handprints. At this point they might already be begging if not encourage them to do so.

6- Building Up


You may want to start your spanking over clothes or panties, removing them after a few warm-up whacks. Start gently and after every couple or so spanks rub their bottom firmly, tickling and stroking the backs of their thighs and of course slipping your hand in between their legs to play with them. It's a very important part of the conditioning as this helps to make the association in the sub's mind between pleasure and pain. When you feel the moment is right you can gradually increase the intensity. It can be a fun idea to get your sub to count out each spank or thank you after each one. Tell them how much you are enjoying it and ask them how they feel.

7. Technique


For a spank that will make a good smacking sound, won't cause too much pain and will leave the skin slightly red, gently cup your hand. For a sub that can take more pain you can use a flat palm with your fingers spread.
Use your sub as a guide. You will be able to tell from their reactions what technique is best for them. Slow and hard, or fast and stinging, or both with an irregular rhythm thrown in. Not knowing when the next strike will fall adds to the excitement. Take your time and if you are both enjoying it then you are doing it right.

If you follow all the steps above and with practice it is possible to make your sub cum just through spanking.

It should always be fun and can be a very important part of your foreplay routine.

As with many things in life, communication throughout is very important.

Good luck and happy spanking.

What other advice would you like from the Kinky Kandi team ?

Keep It Kinky

Love Kandi









Sunday 9 June 2013

The Toy

Hello My Little Kinkster

It's story time again. Enjoy.....

When she turns it on she first likes to run it over her nipples. The vibrations make them swell and stand to attention. She sucks her breath in and lets it escape from her lips as a long hissing sound. The tingling in her stiff nipples moves down her body, her pussy flutters and she starts to feel the trickling sensation of her pussy lips moistening.

She traces the tip of the toy slowly down her stomach and giggles softly savouring the sensation. Her body shivers in anticipation as she lightly arches her back. She teasingly runs the tip along the crease where the tops of her thighs meet her body and moans softly as her pussy twitches.

She can feel the slickness between her lips bubbling and as she lifts and bends her legs at the knees and spreads them wide her lips part making a sound like a wet kiss. She pushes her hips up to try and meet the toy. Sometimes she can spend hours teasing herself but today is not one of those days. She turns the toy up another notch and as she glides it over her pussy mound she becomes aware that she is making a mewing sound.

The toy easily slides up and down her wet slit and she can feel her clit swelling as she nestles the head against it. As she pushes it hard, her puffy lips envelop it. She groans, arches her back further and as her pussy clenches she lets out a long low lusty moan as it hits her clit straight on.

She starts to grind and buck her hips against it, building a rhythm allowing the waves of pleasure to roll through her.  She can feel her stomach tightening and her thighs beginning to tremble. She is so wet she can smell her heady scent and the toy keeps slipping around.

As her swollen clit throbs uncontrollably and her pussy pulses, she starts to feel her orgasm building and she thinks of how dirty and naughty she must look. This tips her over the edge and she screams out,

 "I'M A DIRTY SLUT!"

Her climax rips through her explosively. Her pussy flutters so deliciously that she feels like she is going to faint with pleasure. Her flooded pussy is twitching with aftershocks and she gently rolls her hips after each one.

Smiling to herself and revelling in her naughtiness she lifts the toy to her mouth, sniffs and takes a long wet lick before sucking her juices off of it. She collapses back on to the bed in a crumpled heap just as she hears his key in the door.

"Hello Sir, look what I've prepared for you."

Which toy do you imagine she was using ?

Choice No, 1

Choice No. 2

Choice No. 3

Keep smiling and above all else Keep it Kinky

Love Kandi







Sunday 2 June 2013

Do You Have An Inclination For BDSM ?

Hello Little Kinksters

I hope we find you in a happy horny mood. And if not I am sure our blog will help you along the way.

We came across this BDSM Quiz on our internet travels and have shared it with our Little Kinksters on Twitter.  The feedback we have received has been great. Everyone we have shared it with has said that it gives you a very accurate reading of your kink factor.

How kinky are you ? Answer the questions honestly and you may well learn something new about yourself.  Keep a note of your score and share them on here or if you are really brave share them with prospective partners and cut down on all that getting to know you crap.

High score for degradation ? You will love this All the fun of the fair

High score for sadism. You will love this Three wheels are better than one

High score for bondage ? You will love these Going nowhere

High score for masochism ? You will love these Correction Corner

High score for switching ? You will love these Pegged Out

High score for submissiveness ? You will love this Lock Down

Let see who's got the K Factor !

Keep it Kinky

Love KK